3 Weeks Together

A day hasn't gone by yet that I don't think about our trip to China. 

It's still hard to believe she is here, napping in her bed, in the room we lovingly prepared for her.

 We love discovering who she is and marveling in the fact that God has known her all along.

I am in awe of God, who prodded our hearts and called us to adopt, carried us through the process, brought us to our little girl and now grafts her into our family. What a mighty God!
I was a blubbering mess at church yesterday. Just walking in the building made me weep. So many families were eager to lay eyes on her for the first time and to welcome us home.
It's not all rainbows and sunshine here, but today has been good. I will count my blessings. We are laying low and learning to be together. The boys have had their struggles. Today, at lunch I asked them to tell me 1 thing they like about having Avery home and 1 thing they don't. I was not too surprised by their answers, God has been gracious to keep my eyes open even in my very tired state.
We had our 1 month post adoption interview, even though it's only been 3 WEEKS since gotcha. It went well. There wasn't much too report, but I guess this will be the bases for other updates.

Her First Week Home

This amazing sign was waiting for us. Painted by my Sis, Mom and Mason and Ryan. 

OH how the boys loved being reunited. After getting back from the airport LATE, they wanted to have a slumber party. I wanted to say "no" but I couldn't ;) Owen eventually ended up in the other room b/c he woke up at 4 AM and couldn't go back to sleep. Just the beginning of our battle against jet lag.

All 3 boys are in Avery's face constantly. The first full day she pushed Ryan and Mason away. I had taken for granted how comfortable she was with Owen. But by the next day she had stopped pushing them away, she still grunts a little, but she has definitely warmed up to them (or given up ;).

 Our first dinner as a party of 6! Thanks CB for the 2 nights of chili and fixins!

There was a lot of random napping.

We missed Sweet Frog so much when we were in China, that we decided Avery really needed her first taste of frozen yogurt. So much for her BRAT diet ;)

 Can you tell she loved it?

 So did he ;)

The Cassadas stopped by for a quick visit to meet Avery. Oh, how it did my weary heart good. Loved knowing she knew the reasons for all my tears. She totally gets it. I have had a roller coaster of emotions, lack of sleep and a head cold all while learning how to be a mom to FOUR!

 Someone is making herself at home! She walks me over to the highchair if she is hungry for a snack. Clever girl!

 

 There has been way too much electronics this week, but we can work on that, eventually.

 She likes to keep moving, the quicker the better. Gotta keep up with her brothers.

 Her brothers are never far away, even if she would prefer they leave her alone ;)

EJ went back to work on Wed. At breakfast, I warned the boys I'd likely cry, "that's just what mom's do when dad goes back to work the first time after baby" They looked at me like I had 3 heads ;) I held it together, but I still called in my momma. Jet lag was doing a number on me. She is the best! Thanks, Mom! Avery was excited to see EJ at the end of the day and threw her arms up at him when we walked in. Yay!

Welcomed with Love

Our reception home is a bit of a blur, but I will never forget the love expressed to us and Sugar Plum. All of these folks and SO many more carried us in prayer this last year. The support and love expressed to our family is overwhelming. The encouraging emails, notes, help with Mason and Ryan while we were traveling, the meals on our future calendar all are blessing us tremendously. 

 

Home Sweet Home!

First Kiss

I promise pics of the cutey are coming ;) BUT for now, big news. She gave EJ and I kisses this morning. TEARS from me for sure. Although in all honesty, I had already been crying for an hour before she was awake. Poor EJ gets dumped on before heading to work. So much has changed and I am exhausted so the combo isn't pretty.
She slept ALL NIGHT and so did Owen. I still can't do it, but maybe tonight will be my turn ;)

Jet Lag

Is no JOKE. This is awful. Avery hardly slept last night and we had already been lacking so much sleep. I am not handling it well. This is tough. The boys are all a mess b/c Avery requires so much attention. Please pray!